Being a Funeral Director was never something I would have ever imagined myself doing. It’s not exactly an option at careers day in high school. Dealing with grief and heartache on a daily basis, constantly reminded how cruel life can be, the aftermath of a significant loss… why would anyone want to put themselves in that situation?
After loosing my fiancé in a tragic accident, I felt like my entire world had imploded. I went from planning our wedding to planning his funeral. With two young children I had to carry on. The grief was a long journey. I was lucky enough to have the support of my family and friends to pull me through my darkest days.
I entered into the funeral industry initially out of curiosity. I wondered how my fiancé was cared for. I had no idea of the profound impact it would have on me and how it would help me to heal. I understood grief and used this knowledge to support others.
I do not consider being a Funeral Director a job. I consider it an honour. To be chosen by a family to care for their loved one is very special.
I believe we only get one goodbye and it must be perfect.
